still my favorite photo of my grandmother and my aunt 
wallpills:

(von Andiron Anklet)
White girl: I find that women from other races tend to be very, very ugly or very, very hot. There's not much in between. Whereas white women are usually not very hot or very ugly but fall in the middle.
Me (Asian girl): Um. That's because your standards of beauty are normalized around white women. You're taught to think that way through the barrage of media presenting whiteness as normal and color as exotic or repulsive.
White Girl: No, I think I'm right. I've talked to other people and they all agree with me.
Me: ...